Don’t trust anyone.
If you try to follow the views of others, it may end with failure.
Else if you try to follow your own views without any discussion with others, it may result in complete failure.
Use the experience of others as an input to your ideas.
Just treat their words as suggestions.
Some of their suggestions may be useful for your final decisions.
You can discuss with any number of persons. But the final decision must be yours, not others.
It’s your work, you should decide on, “How to do it?”.