Treat love as a receivable emotion.
Don’t try to extract it.
Whatever you do, it should be loved by your partner.
It is not a good practice to do something to attract and extract love.
It resembles like, you are trying to cheat, to get something you need.
It won’t look like, you try to express your love.
It looks like you are trying to act infront of your partner to get his/her love.
It should flow like a stream, without any barrier.
Don’t try to pump it out.